June 14, 2005

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    Medical update: I have accute anemia now, which means I can do things like travel but I got to keep sitting down every few minutes.


    As usual, I’ll post my pieces and visit your blogs over the next couple of days, that is so I can read your blogs properly of course. Terry.


    and sorry, more Sophie!


    —————-


    “In The Cemetery”



    We went on a car-ride

    To a cemetery

    To see where Grandad was buried.

    It was hard to cry

    Over someone I hardly remembered,

    But I pretended to be sad.



    And I put some flowers on the grave

    And did the three blessings.

    (Not that that Grandad was Catholic,

    That is Mummy’s dad

    Who is still alive

    But lives a long way away).



    I looked at the other graves

    As Nanny sat down.

    I read some of the words

    And was sad to see

    One grave was for a boy who died aged four,

    who died two years ago.



    “Why do I come here Sophie?”

    Nanny asked me.

    “To show you remember?”

    I asked back.

    “You are a good girl” she sighed

    And we went back to the car.



    It was a beautiful sunny day,

    But the birdsong and the wild flowers were wasted

    In such a sad place.





    Sophie Lucy Morgan (Aged 10).

    ———–

     

     


    Diary extracts from August 2004.



    Mam Tor towers above my church. At present, the hill-side is a mass of Scottish bluebells, and children slide down it’s slopes on trays, and lovers hold hands and marvel at the sights.



    They call Mam Tor “The Shivering Mountain”, because the other side the mountain does shiver in high winds. In 1949, a road was laid around that side of the mountain at a considable expense, but each winter it had to close when there were high winds, and in 1982 a gale brought half the mountain onto the road and left large cracks in the part not affected, so it was never re-opened. It was not the first time this happened on the road and frankly it was not worth re-building.



    On the church side though, how different! it is beautiful in mist, in snow, and in sun, and I have often puffed up it’s tracks to the top to feel at one with God.



    —-



    It is time for the well-dressing outside my church, when scouts guides cubs and brownies spend a week sticking flower-petals, twigs, moss and other natural substances, to make wonderful pictures.

    For several years now they have followed the design of local artist, Celia Potts, (who also designed the new wonderful stained glass window in my church, all free.)



    This year the surprising theme is Jonah and the Whale, but I did do that in my Sunday School.



    Since 1860, every year’s well-dressing has been photographed and kept in the church vaults, only to be read, viewed by appointment. Of course since the fifties, the photos have been in colour, and I have noticed Jonah has not been used before.



    The other well dressing in Shawthwaite has less religious themes, they are working now on a view of the railway with a steam train coming through the valley. Very beautiful but as the idea of dressing the wells is to thank God for spring water in an otherwise waterless area, I think it misses the point.







    Another beautiful day, and I stroll through the village in my dog-collar smiling and talking to people, and visiting the old the sick and the depressed.



    I have so much to do in my parish, trips out for the younger kids, bingo, and my vast church garden, that I do not get out nearly enough, though my wonderful curate; a lady in her fifties, also does a great job.



    She is invaluable, for it is amazing what there is to do, from VAT books to flower-arranging to going to Buxton to visit villagers in Hospital there. It is a busy life, but it is better than being some Father McKensey!



    —-

    The Reverend Tobias Trontby †


    (note: Mam Tor and well-dressing and so on exists, but the people are ficticious, and oh, ignore the date, wrote this this week!)

Comments (46)

  • I have never heard of well dressing before.  Mam Tor sounds like a very interesting place!

    I always love the entries from Sophie.  If she were older, she would realize that the birdsong and wildflowers were not wasted there at all.  They help to soothe the spirits of those left behind.  But I remember many a visit to the cemetery as a youngster like that, and I’m sure I felt the same way then!

  • I’m sooooooo sorry!!!! Take care of yourself!!

  • You write of soo many things, ideas, images, expressions etc. All pooled inside that beautiful mind of yours.

    I am still amazed by Sophie. She’s innocent and so intelligent ;)

  • Do you have good medicine/diet for the anemia?! Hope so, and glad that you can still travel!
    Sweet Sophie, I feel her in my heart. Rev Trontby, always the busy man-so concerned for his parishioners and friends.
    Thanks for your emails! Appreciate you, ya know!

  • I randomly found your website through searching various blogrings. I like your site very much, and this entry drew me in, trying to picture it exactly.
    I think I’ll be returning!
    ps: I see you live in England…. I’ve always dreamed of studying English at Oxford.

  • That “In the Cemetary” poem reminds me of when I went to Boston and visited some historical gravesites. There was this one family plot that had the two parents and SIX small children (between the ages of one and nine) who had all died within two weeks of each other. The curator who was giving the talk about the site said that they had all probably died from some sort of comsumption or tuberculosis, and that since they all lived in such cramped quarters, that’s why they all died so close together. It was SO sad to see those tiny headstones, and know that that whole family was lying there together. Anyway, that got me thinking!! Have a fabulous Tuesday!

  • I must say there seems to be a funeral “theme” in blogs this week.
    I agree with Sophie, flowers and bird song is wasted in those places.

    About the “well dressing”, do you know where or when this originated? It sounds so very pagan, and well…I’m curious. Would love to hear more about it.

  • i have anemia too.
    once i got to visit a grandma’s grave that i only remember as being ina hosptiol bed with stinky kisses and slobber. everyone was sad but me. but i tried to pretend as well.

  • thank you very much for your feedback and criticism. i appreciated it very much.

  • I didn’t know my blog was troublesome. Hey, when I write, I run the gammot. Take care and have a great day!

  • aHa!!  A comment from the “infamous” LP!  I was actually debating changing that background to something more subtle…perhaps a nice shade of gray…er…grey / gray (hmmm…odd how the English language works…its like they couldn’t figure out how to spell it…so they went with both.).  Now that I have an honest opinion I think I will change it.  Nice to hear from you.  I’m guessing you’re feeling better?

  • RYC:  I know, I felt a little weird about seeing the movie at that particular time,  too, especially the part where someone actually mentions the fact that people are  suspicious of his relationship with the family, especially with the boys.

    You could have someone rent it while you are here, and watch it on one of your “rest” days!

  • Little Sophie is back to play!

  • The Rev. Trontby is waxing philosophical I see. I like him very much. He seems a bit worn at the edges and comfortable like an old pair of slippers.

    I wonder if you think you would go mad living with yourself, if you think it might be possible to go mad with a guest in your house ~:O 

  • don’t apologize, i like sophie the best of all your characters. since when did she turn ten? the cemetary one actually reminds me of a memory i had from when i was around that age, maybe a little younger…well feel better and sorry i haven’t commented in while i’ve been busy

  • You take good care of yourself, Lord Pineapple! And take your iron pills, now. And let’s have more Sophie, she is so sweet. hugs xo

  • Beautigul poems as usual….very interesting

    ryn: my apologies. You weren’t the only one offended by my post. I will post a public apology on my site…. Guess I was just being immature/vain/unreasonable there

    Elle

  • Take care and rest !
    ~Thoughts through the looking glass~
    Hope you are having a great day!
    Karolyn   @-}-}- 

  • Dear Sophie has an old soul for one so young; she’s a love.
    I would love to see a shivering mountain, but don’t think I would want to be on it while it was actually taking place.
    ryc: All life’s journey’s have some interest. Even trips to the grocery store can be an adventure. But mostly I’m just an old windbag

  • You must do what the doctors tell you so that you can make this wonderful trip.  I am sorry that the diagnosis just seems to go on and on to things that are not pleasant.  Sending lots of good love and thoughts your way as well as prayers as I know them…..My daughter says…God listens no matter how you speak

  • I am VERY sorry to hear that your aniemic…don’t they have some type of vitamin pupplement or something these days that helps to balance the condition?

    RYC: I found that I was mixing the image of the painting I was looking for. The one with classic actors is “Boulevard of Broken Dreams”, while the one I wanted was a cafe in the clouds with Elvis, Jimmi Hendricks, Janice Joplin, John Lennon, and a few others, with Kert Cobain just entering through the door. It was like a Rock~N~Roll heaven theme…LoL

  • I hope youre feeling well. That can be a tiring disorder I hear. Just have fun and dont over do it. More great poetry my friend. You really have quite a gift. Thanks for always sharing with us.

  • Dear Terry,

    I wish you the best of times on your trip to the states. A while back (when you were thinking of visiting closer to my side of the country, I might have been able to get over to see you, but now you are going to be far to much to the east. (I live in Los Angeles, California, on the west coast of the U.S.) Chicago is a big town. I visited there once in the late 70s. I remember the natural history museum and the lakefront, and we rode the elevated trains. You’ll have a good time, and I hope you get the chance to visit all your favorite Xangans.

    Sophie’s poem is excellent. Why are you “sorry”?

    Also enjoyed reading the Rev.s diary.

    RYC on WhenWordsCollide. You mentioned that reading the abbrevieated “carin’” which was specifically written that way (even when I was 27) to rhyme with the gal’s name “Karen” “spoiled” the poem. Sorry you think so, as I always liked that rhyme, written about 25 years ago. Also the use of “tho’” is proper. I am sure I can find instances in Wordsworth and Shakespeare where “abbreviations” of certain words have been used to service the poem. I don’t write haphazardly and never have. But thanks for the “specific” critiques, even if I, as the poet, do not agree. I ask for poetic license to be granted.

    I notice you have started saying things like “I’ll read your blogs”. Pity me if I ever “announce” in an article or entry that I’ll “get around” to reading somebody’s blog. Either I’m going to or I won’t. I won’t “talk about it”. I’ve noticed this a lot, and I don’t understand it. Some blogs I won’t visit for a whole week, because I’m working during the day, and don’t want to just “post a comment” for the sake of posting a comment. I always hope that the comments I write are insightful and enlightening about the entries I read, and so sometimes I might read six or eight entries at a sitting, and comment on all of them, then move on to another site.

    If you enjoy my blog, you will visit when you have time, and if you feel like it, you will leave a comment. The site will be there for when you have time, it’s not going to disappear, so don’t ever worry about saying “I’ll get around to reading your sites.” It’s a thought best left unsaid.

    Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philospher, fool

  • Just did a web search on well dressing.  The pictures were beautiful.  Amazing how much detail in them.  It kind of reminds me of our Rose Bowl parade on New Years Day in California, where they make huge floats all with flowers, grain, living plants.  Have you heard of it?

    I hope you don’t let Sophie grow up too much!!  She is my favorite.  We enjoy walking through cemeteries.    They are usually so peaceful.  Can use our imaginations to figure out stories behind some of the tombstones. 

    We used to live through the block from a large cemetery.  It was so beautifully landscaped with lots of old trees.  It was our favorite walk–no traffic, and on a bluff above the river.  I miss doing that.

  • I’m sorry to hear you have the anemia. My friend has it too, she gets bruised all the time. Take good care of yourself! I wouldn’t want to lose out on the master mind behind Sophie.

  • This girl must have a novel out of her poems. If she does not, get her on that bandwagon, she writes some good stuff! I pray all is well with you. Take it easy!

  • Wow…lots of comments.  I’m just writing to inform people of my upcoming poetry site:

    A_Living_Stanza

    Beautiful poem.

  • I have just realized that I’m not signed into my familiar site:  UtopianNightmare. 

    Well, now I feel kind of dumb.

  • Always glad to make someone laugh:)

    I quite enjoyed that sophie poem, seeing as I remeber that awkward feeling that comes with the death of older relatives that you never really knew.

    -Jos-

  • Your latest comment has left me speechless. Thank you, my friend.

    Anemic? Are you taking anything for it? Take care of yourself.

    Jim

  • I like the profile picture, Terry. It’s nice to see you smile.

  • Terry,

    I’ve ordered your book.  Can hardly wait to read it. 

    Take care of that anemia.  Eat lots of spinach. That’s what I had to do.

  • I’m excited for you on your trip to the U.S., I’m sure you’ll enjoy it even though you won’t get to see me :( …but I know you’ll survive without that. :) Your itinerary sounds a bit tiring but lots of fun! If anything changes and you get anywhere near California, please let me know, I’d love to meet you in person!

  • I just remembered that as children we were cautioned to avoid walking on the part of the grave where the person is. Didn’t they know that the soul was no longer there? A mark of respect, no doubt. ”Don’t speak ill of the dead” was another. Why not, if they were stinkers in real life?

    Pink Floyd is to perform in London July 2nd  **sigh**

  • What aneamia do you have if it is pernicious ,you need injections, if the normal one, are you taking a lot of iron tablets, you must keep yourself fit for your trip .I have to have injections every six weeks that keeps my pernicious aneamia up to date ,when it was first discovered I was just about out of it ,and staggering all over the place, a weekly injection soon put me right and that was years ago,  good luck, I don’t mind which person I read, they are all good Cheers Marj

  • I love the “Entries” there.. very well written which I’m sure youve heard ten bazillion times.. Rev has got to be my favorite of your characters, don’t get me wrong the little girl is really smart in her poetry but Rev has a fluent/eloquent way with words that I admire.. and envy at the same time

  • ryc on my 6-14 post–ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I was so busy looking at your nice photo, I forgot to read your post. LOL

    Jonah and the whale is quite a story.

  • What beautiful images and scenes . Sophie is indeed a good girl . Love your poem . I have felt like that at times of realative’s I barely knew .

    I am hoping you recover soon and feel well enough for your trip and also that you enjoy it to the fullest . America is a crazy place . hahaha You’ve been here before ? I feel as though you have .

    Take care , LordPineApple .

    Peace and Love :)

  • don’t apologize, i like the poems by sophie and these thoughts, life boiled down to a childs simpler and clearer thinking is a nice point of view…  the reverand seems to be a grown up sophie trying not to be too jaded by real life and real people????  maybe I’m not thinking of the overall theme of all the poems under his name…..  take care terry, this getting older and failing or faltering health thing is the pits, I’m on the downhill slide of life - age wise and just when I was starting to get a clearer view of where I thought I was going….. life is so full of rude awakenings…  the sophie poems address many of your same themes but from a simpler point of view…. sorry I’m repeating myself…. take care 

  • Please keep Sophie coming. RITA

  • More wonderful words to read…..you are a true storyteller.

    Take it easy and don’t overdo things. Hope you get to feeling better soon!

    @)~~~~~>~~~~

  • I find cemeteries fascinating and sad. I sometimes visit just to imagine the lives of those who are now entombed there… it’s amazing the clear pictures I get sometimes.

  • Reading mimiwi’s comment made me realise how i actually enjoy walking through the cemetery back in England during the daytime of course sometime historical about each of those places i went to and i can imagine what life was like during those days !! Sophie’s poetry is lovely ..the way she sees sadness in the eyes of a child!! The birdsong and wildflowers are never wasted, it is there to commemorate the life that has passed by and the life that has just begun sorry does that sound a bit funny ? Aah well !!

    I am sorry to hear of your diagnosis however i am glad that you are still able to travel !

  • I still love Sophie! And the Reverend’s reference to “Father McKensey” was an inspired touch! Sorry to hear about your anemia…the chemo made me anemic as well, and it really sucks. I get all out of breath just climbing the stair. There’s a lot of stairs at my house, inside and out…Geez! I need to rest just typing about it!

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